Goodbye & Thank You 2019

What a year 2019 has been! I’ve had the best year of weddings! I’ve worked with some absolutely amazing couples who I’ll miss being in touch with but feel so honored to have been part of their wedding day. If this is you, please keep in touch! 

I’ve met and worked alongside some really fab suppliers this year too. A huge thank you to all the caterers who have fed me. The bar staff who have kept me hydrated on those long, tiring wedding coordination days. Seriously, whoever thinks working by yourself in your business is lonely has not worked in the wedding industry. We’re a lovely bunch, supporting each other any way we can. I have a strong ethos of only working with nice people and luckily there are so many in the wedding industry. 

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One absolute highlight of the year has been winning The Wedding Industry Award for Yorkshire and the North East Venue Stylist. This really was a grateful win. It meant so much to me that the couple’s I’d worked with this year made it happen by voting. So a huge thank you to them. I’m going to the Nationals in January so wish me luck! I’m up against some amazing competition so I’m not at all hopeful but just thankful to be there!

When I started Emily K Weddings I remember looking at the winners of those awards and thinking it must be amazing to get to that level, to say I’m there, really makes me happy and yes really proud of myself. I feel like I work so hard in my business like literally my husband has to tell me to have a day off from time to time. I get wrapped up in the wedding whirlwind for each of my clients and just love that I get to help people create their dream wedding.

Cheesy but it’s really true. I’m a true believer that when you’re passionate about doing something and you give it all your hustle and heart, the results shine through. 

Emily K Weddings has grown so much this year as in physically as well. I’ve recently got a small warehouse space to house all my lovely decor which is a forever growing collection so if it’s not on the hire collection page it doesn’t mean I don’t have it. The collection is forever growing and it’s difficult to keep it updated all the time, so if there is something specific, get in touch. I’m hoping the warehouse space will one day it will develop into a space where couples can view styling setups for tables, etc. However, there is a lot of hard work to do well before that but stay tuned. 

I’ve learned lots along the way this year, mainly to not underestimate the time and skill it takes to clean glass candle holders. Haha. There are many New Year goals I’ve set myself to keep Emily K Weddings moving onwards and upwards, some I know I’ll stick to, others if I’m been honest might not happen, I mean blogging, realistically, keeping up a regular blog schedule is a pipedream! I’m not a natural writer, I tend to type as I talk which sometimes doesn’t make sense. I’ve accepted now that that’s ok, my brain just isn’t wired in a wordy way, I’m much more about the visual. In other words, if you’ve read to this point, you’re doing well! One other New Year’s resolution is to accept that I am only one person and can’t do it all so to accept help when offered. Let’s see how it goes!

Group photo with the lovely Where the Ribbon Ends, Garden Studio and M & G Photographic. Photo by the lovely M & G Photographic too!

Happy New Year Everyone! I can’t wait for an even more exciting and challenging 2020. More weddings, more couples and creating more beautiful bespoke weddings. 

If you’re recently engaged and looking for help with wedding planning, styling, coordination or set up, get in touch. 2021 is almost full but the 2022 calendar is open. It’s not too early to book!

5 Reasons You Need a Wedding Stylist

A wedding stylist isn’t necessarily a key ingredient to the wedding planning recipe, more like the garnish on the top making everything that bit better and taste even more yummy.
Here’s why that garnish is so much more than just a cherry on the top…

 

 

 

 

5 reasons you need a wedding stylist…

1. Save Money

Save money by hiring decor rather than buying it. Hiring a wedding stylist can be cheaper than doing everything yourselves. Stylists know where to get props and decor to help you make your wedding day even more amazing. 

2. Save Time

No one wants to be stressed or under pressure on their wedding day. A wedding stylist can set it all up for you before or on the morning of your wedding. Therefore, you have time to relax, get ready with mum and your bridesmaids, sip prosecco and just enjoy! Trust me, I’ve experienced this first hand on my own wedding day. On the morning of my wedding day, my parents and husband-to-be were frantically running around decorating the venue, they came back so stressed and had to rush to get ready. I felt so bad for doing that to them and I missed enjoying my morning with my mum. So please don’t have the same regret I did!

A stylist can also save you time before the day itself. I will help source decor so you don’t have to and if you have those extra bits you want to do yourself, just let me know and I’ll style them for you on the day. I totally understand if you want to use those Gin bottles you’ve been saving for table names!

 

 

3. Less Effort

It’s a lot more effort than you anticipate doing the styling yourself. Doing all the DIY elements, packing them up the day before then collecting the morning after your wedding is so much effort. The last thing you want to do after your first breakfast as husband and wife is clear up at the venue! A stylist does all that for you. Get yourselves off onto that honeymoon!

4. Better Design

When you’ve got a Pinterest board bursting at the seams with ideas that have evolved and changed so much, you don’t know what you want anymore! A wedding stylist can help you refine your wedding style and put together a more cohesive wedding design for you. My Story of Your Day pack does just that. Aimed at couples who have been bombarded with ideas and worried about which direction to take their wedding style, the pack clarifies those details and ideas to bring your day to life in a narrative. After reading through it, I guarantee, it’ll make you even more excited about your wedding day, maybe even a tear to your eye. My job as a wedding stylist is to then bring the Story of Your Day to life by sourcing, design decor and working with the best suppliers. 

5. Higher Quality

Chances are you might be able to get cheaper props from the high street, but you know what, if I’m being honest, they’ll look cheap. Quality is so important on your wedding day, those little details matter and if you hire a wedding stylist, they will have more high quality or specialised decor to set your wedding apart and elevate your wedding design. The quality of service for a stylist is important too. I communicate with you throughout your wedding planning and draw up a layout plan so your wedding design is exactly how you want! 

Get in touch to arrange your free consultation and let’s get creative with your wedding styling.

Emily K Weddings Wedding Styling
Photography by Boho Chic Weddings

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Newsletter – Wedding Styling

 

Emily K Weddings Wedding Styling
Photography by Boho Chic Weddings

 

This month’s newsletter is a little intro about styling your wedding day. This is where my passion lies.

To download the PDF newsletter for ‘on the go’ reading, click here. It’s not long but it’ll give you something to read on your commute.  Or you can sign up to the newsletter to recieve it directly into your inbox.

I love the fact that your wedding day can be styled exactly how you want and done so that it totally reflects you. What I really don’t like is when people say their wedding style is a colour, a shade of blue or Cadbury purple. How can picking a single colour define your style and reflect any part of your personality?!

Na ah, not under my watch, your wedding deserves better than that. I thought I’d share with you a recent table styling so you can see there is so much more to styling your wedding day.

WHITE ELEGANCE at Jervaulx Abbey

My favourite styling so far took place this month with The Alternatives photography workshop. Inspired by the Grecian hanging gardens of Babylon, and set in the beautiful setting of Jervaulx Abbey ruins, I wasn’t totally confident about the different white tones coming together if I’m being honest. My concern was that it would look too plain and lack colour and interest. However, the end result was elegant, modern and most of all, fresh.

 

View More: http://jogreenfieldphotographer.pass.us/oliandlucie
Photography by Jo Greenfield

 

The white tones layered together worked perfectly with the lush greenery from All Bunched Up which gave it more textured detail and colour. The gold cutlery and boxes added a beautifully warm metallic tone. Stationery from A Little Pigment, ribbons from Bertie and Fred and macaroons from Where the Ribbon Ends all added those little details I just adore on a wedding table. Those are the bits that make guests go ooooh and ahhh.

 

Screen Shot 2018-08-29 at 13.38.48A NOTE FROM BYRON…

There’s a new company in town, Bow, Wow, Vow! They take care of dogs at weddings so you can bring your pooch along knowing they’re looked after during and after the vows. Because us dogs love a wedding too you know! Thank you Bow, Wow, Vow for making it possible to be part of our Human’s wedding day.

 

 

HOW TO FIND YOUR WEDDING STYLE?
Some key questions to help you define your wedding style…

 

  • How do you imagine your wedding day? Relaxed, outside, romantic, quirky, fun, casual…
  • What’s your personal style like? Clothes, home, accessories…
  • Is there anything about you as a couple that makes you unique? You got engaged on the beach, you both love Star Wars…
  • What is the venue like? This can often denote the style initially. Barn wedding – rustic. Castle Wedding – opulent, etc.
  • Is there anything that must be included in your wedding that you’ve always thought you’d have when you got married?
  • What makes you cringe or you absolutely hate?  It’s always good to rule things out.

 


Get in touch if you would like to book a free wedding consultation to find out how I can help you with your wedding planning and styling. hello@emilykweddings.com

More of mine and Byron’s daily shinanigens can be found on Instagram,  have a follow @emilykweddings.

 


 

Lovely Suppliers ||

Couple: @lucielowex @olihughes1
Flowers: @all_bunched_up
Ribbons: @bertieandfred
Dress: @meggieandma
Cake: @wheretheribbonends
Jewellery: @london_victorian_ring_co
Stationery: @alittlepigment
Venue: @jervaulxabbey
MUA: @lucyhartmakeupartist
Hair: @hairandmakeupbysaskia
Macrame: @frankie_and_flea
Shoes: @asos
Suit: @asos
Stylist: @emilykweddings
Creative direction: @the_alternatives_ss
Crockery: @whitehouse_crockery

 

Autumn Romance in the Air

Autumn Inspiration
 

Image Credits
Floral Arch: via Rock My Wedding . Log stack: via The Pretty Blog . Gin Bar: via Rock My Wedding. Bride: via Amber Bridal. Woodland: Fox Tail Photography . Headpiece: via Etsy. Cake: via Rock My Wedding

It occurred to me the other day that I’m missing out on the lovely autumn vibes at home. I love Autumn! I know it’s probably many people’s least favourite but for me I love going for walks in rustling leaves, getting wrapped up and relaxing with a cosy coffee on the sofa. I also love Halloween and Bonfire night. Again, I know some people think these are so commercial now but come on, brighten up the Autumn by embracing the festivities.

Missing Autumn got me thinking about an inspiration board for an Autumn wedding. Most wedding venues get booked up first in the Spring and Summer months, however, if you’re a bride and groom with your hearts set on a certain venue, don’t let the season ruin your plans. Embrace the off season and create a cosy, autumn wedding full of golden tones and texture.

The colour palette for a true autumn style wedding obviously includes the golden and red tones inspired by the leaves. Teamed with a deep blue/ grey tone for an edge and soft natural tones for elegance and lightness. Don’t think that you have to choose one colour for your wedding style, don’t be defined by one colour. Think tonal and creative.

The florals on the board are organic and rustic representing the true nature of autumn. This is repeated in the headpiece which adds colour to the dress and a wild, bohemian texture. The flowing tulle dress has natural movement, again adding the organic free spirit of Autumn vibes.

The lighting and woodland location is soft and romantic. So romantic you are both whisked away when saying your ‘I do’s’. Lost in a moment with each other surrounded by candle light and nature.

The cake and gin bar are rustic focal points. Adorned with detail and foraged fruit. The semi naked cake makes a statement to Autumn and says it’s ok for the wild walks and lazy days. The gin bar in my opinion is always a must and this could adopt spiced gin flavours teamed with blackberries and wild herb garnishes – warming flavours of Autumn as opposed to those light summer blends.

The overall feel for this Autumn styled wedding is relaxed, romantic and intimate. So when your dream venue only has availability in October or November, don’t rule out an inspiring Autumn wedding day. It can be more magical than you expected. (And sometimes cheaper).

If you’re having Pinterest overload or just don’t know where to start with your wedding planning adventure, get in touch to arrange a FREE consultation and find out how I can help you with your dream day no matter how big or small your plans may be.
View my brochure here.

 

Emily x